I am using Mambo 4.5.5 and uddeIM 08b and it installed and is running without any problems. If you will explain the problems you are having and what version of Mambo you are using, maybe I can help.
I just came across this very old thread and realised I had not responded. Version 0.8 of uddeIM fixed my problem, thanks. Download is still available here at
www.slabihoud.de/software/id4001.htm
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