In the CB Activity edit Tab (Activity)
Parameters > Stream > Disable , this does not work, I cannot see anyones Activity then.
That's not what I instructed you to do. You completely turned off profile activity. That parameter is just to set what stream the Activity tab should display.
Parameters > Stream > Recent Activity, - I see my Activity on all profles, including ones I am Connected to and ones that I am not Connect too. I believe I should only see my personal activity on my personal Activity Tab.
The recent activity stream is not the same as the profile activity stream. They will function entirely different.
You needed to edit the "Profile Activity" stream in CB Activity > Streams > Activity and change the connected access parameter under Create as I instructed above. You've 3 ways you can reach those pages as I tried to make it as transparent as possible where streams are managed. Will review also adding a note with link in the Activity tab to the management page to help with the confusion.
Activity Streams
1. Left Menu: Community Builder > Plugin Management > Activity > Streams > Activity
2. Within CB: CB > Plugin Management > Activity Streams (button in CB Activity row)
3. Within CB Activity: CB Activity > Parameters > Streams > Manage Activity Streams
Comment Streams
1. Left Menu: Community Builder > Plugin Management > Activity > Streams > Comments
2. Within CB: CB > Plugin Management > Comment Streams (button in CB Activity row)
3. Within CB Activity: CB Activity > Parameters > Streams > Manage Comment Streams
Streams are entirely managed from their respective streams pages. You do not need to look anywhere else but in those pages for changing the majority of a streams parameters.
So for example if you also want commenting to not require a connection check then edit the "Profile Activity" comment stream and turn off its connections check under its Create tab, which you seam to have already done.
I went ahead and made the change for you, but please understand this is not something support typically provides. While I'm happy to help answer your questions you should consider hiring a developer or review our hourly services below should you need us to configure something for you.
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