Ahhh.. and another comment from Quickpay support:
"If you want only to use a callback, when eg. a capture is completed, then you unfortunally would have to deactivate autocapture. We are sending callbacks for all operations on a payment. So then you would have to not use callback on auth, and then make the capture yourself, after you through the API can se that "accepted:true", send capture request with callback.
But - we recommend not using callback at all or only use it as a failsafe."